Don’t you hate it when your best friend goes to the Chinese grocery store two blocks away or to the basement apartment laundry and half an hour later comes up with three phone numbers and a dinner date with a sexy guy when they get signs of “Not interested” even from the guys you would normally consider “A” losers.
What about those women who never seem to stay single for more than three months? Do you know those who escape from the arms of a rich guy into the life of another magnificent humanitarian with a heart of gold? What do some women have about men that the rest of us don’t? What is your secret? What do they do that makes kids want to be with them?
Their secret is that they let kids know that they are interested and available. While the rest of us are “playing hard to get” or throwing ourselves at anyone who looks our way, these “hot” women know exactly what they want and don’t hesitate to let them know.
But how can you ask? How do I let a guy know that I like him without looking silly if he doesn’t like you? Most of us buckle when we see someone we care about because we assume they are probably looking for someone young and absolutely beautiful. But having worked with many singles over the years, I have almost come to the conclusion that “the more handsome you are, the more work you have to do.” No one will come near you unless you make it very obvious that you want them to.
Apparently, there are ways to say “I’m available, just name the place and time” without sounding desperate. YES !!! There are ways to stand out from the crowd and still retain your sense of “dignity.” It’s called flirting.
Research has shown that there are certain qualities that make a woman stand out even without the high heels or black mini dress. Guys, we are told, have “sex” biological radars and can literally feel the “sexiest” woman as soon as they step foot in a room.
Amazing, right? While we women want to know him: his sign on the zodiac line, his favorite color, his deepest fear, his mother’s maiden name and all that kind of thing, men’s radars are in the air capturing signs of some hot. Mom who just entered the room.
So if you want to catch him, and hold him, apparently you have to learn to speak his language. I have listed here the top five qualities that were volunteered by men and confirmed by some “sexy” women. I’ve used them all a few times and got 150% OVER-KILL. Even if they don’t get you to be the man of your dreams, they will immediately make your life a little more fabulous and dating truly a jungle game.
A woman with the sexiness that oozes from every pore of her skin has these qualities, apparently:
1. Looks like he’s having fun. Being predictable and boring is a cardinal sin when it comes to dating and all relationships. Like it or not, people are very attracted to other people who seem to be enjoying themselves. A woman who is not afraid of life drags everyone with her. Men look at her and want a piece of “HER”.
Develop an optimistic and positive attitude and get in touch and be aware of your own sexual energy. Beyond that, develop a fun and childlike quality about yourself and share a little bit of that with the rest of the world. A little “playful joke” is a great way to spark interest. When it’s obvious that you should start acting like a sticky bug, just lay back like you have all the time in the world. This can take seduction to the next level …
2. She is confident but not self-absorbed to the point that no one or nothing else matters except her. She is aware of her appearance, but is not obsessed with her appearance. In other words, she is “hot”.
You don’t have to be classically beautiful by social standards to be inexplicably sexy. It all has to do with the perception you have of yourself and all the ways in which you show yourself. Loving yourself in a healthy way is actually an important factor in convincing others that you are an attractive mom.
3. Makes someone feel like they are the only person in the room that matters. She looks him in the eye, really listens, calls him by name, and concentrates on what he’s saying.
What else can I say, the eyes have it. Let your eyes delve into his soul and move him like never before. Use your fingers to draw attention to your eyes and keep your gaze focused on you, and only you. When the exchange takes place in crowded conditions, simply touch your nose or gently rub your cheek while a finger points to either eye. Power covered him with gauze.
4. Hit a lot. When someone touches us, we like it even more. If you are stingy with your affection, others assume that you are cold, difficult to recognize and tense.
If you are already familiar with the “mirror” technique, add the “touch anchor” technique to it and you will never realize why three weeks later you are rubbing your hands against your sleeves and you still smell your perfume even when you are wearing it. a different shirt than the one he wore that “full of fate” night. This touch extends to touching yourself. Touch yourself to draw attention to your most flattering features, and when combined with looking into his eyes, Houston we have a problem.
5. Know your body and be aware of it. I’m talking about body language. If you’ve been getting stares but haven’t done anything, you probably need to fine-tune your body language; the way you walk, what you are wearing and the vibrations and waves you send out.
I have Dolly Parton’s cleavage and she tries the “Oh my God, you’re so funny” when she says something funny. And laugh deeply so those “babies” hiccup like an earthquake shaking the Himalayas. And if you’re a Beyonce lover, going to the ladies’ room as often as you can is a good thing. Turning seductively with a swing and wide gaze that ends up on your trash side and then rolling and bouncing what your mom gave you can cause bloody chaos even in the most composed of them.
Flirting is actually quite easy when you consider it soft marketing and all it takes is the right attitude and the willingness to take some risks and make things happen. The next time you go out and feel the need to flirt her pants, literally be impulsive and try something unpredictable and wildly interesting.
And hey, let me know how you do …