Inner Feminine: What Can Happen If A Man Is In Conflict With His Own Feminine Aspect?

If the average man were told that he has an inner feminine, a big frown might appear on his face. After this, he could make it clear that this is not something he possesses and say that there is nothing feminine about him.

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I could even say that this is something that is a fairy tale and only those with their heads in the clouds would believe it. If this were to happen, it would probably show that he believes the word ‘feminine’ means feminine.

Two parts

Actually, it relates to a certain certain aspect and different traits will emerge from it, and that is why both a woman and a man will have a feminine element in them. In the same way, both a man and a woman will have a masculine element.

One way of looking at the feminine would be to say that it will relate to a man’s feelings, while the masculine will relate to his thoughts. In other words, the former will relate to his emotional self/body and the latter will relate to his mind/intellect.

a divided being

Now, even if a man is made up of both parts, he might give the impression that he is not. What this will mean is that he might seem emotional in general.

Some people might describe you as stoic, while others might say you’re emotionally closed off. Either way, he’ll usually look calm and not quite at sea, emotionally speaking.

A very different experience

If you were to get into a relationship, you might end up with a woman (or a man, as it can still turn out the same) who is emotionally out of control. At this point, it could be said that this will prove that ‘opposites attract’.

This is because they will appear to be two radically different people, at least in this respect. The man will appear stable and the women unstable.

more evolved

The man, although he may not have a problem with this at first, could soon end up feeling restricted and fed up. He may believe that the woman needs to recover and stop being controlled by her feelings.

He could say that this shows that she is unable to manage her thoughts, and her thoughts are considered to control how she feels. Before long, he might end up criticizing her and if her behavior doesn’t change, he might end up cutting her ties.

a pattern

If this were to happen and he were to look back on his life, what he may find is that this is not the first time he has been in this position. In fact, he could see that this has happened several times.

Along with this, he was able to see that he has spent time with many other women who are like this. Thanks to this, he was able to believe that this is how women are and believe that he needs to stay away from them and not allow himself to become attached to a woman.

Mirror

However, while it may seem like this is exactly what women tend to be like, there is probably much more to it than this. Ultimately, this will be an evaluation that this extroverted intellect/mind has made.

In all likelihood, the experiences he continually has with women and especially the women he ends up with reflect the fact that he is in conflict with his own feminine aspect. So instead of seeing what’s happening in a very literal way, he needs to see it in a symbolic way.

a closer look

When he is around a woman who is emotionally at sea, he will feel uncomfortable and will soon have the need to get away. If you were to wonder what this reminds him of, what you’ll soon discover is that he’s uncomfortable when it comes to her own emotional side and does his best to keep this part of him in check.

Therefore, the women he is attracted to and who are attracted to him are reflecting what he needs to integrate within himself. If he embraced this side of his nature and became comfortable with his feelings, emotions, and impulses, he wouldn’t have to end up with a woman who almost drowned him with his feelings.

truly focused

What this illustrates is that there is a big difference between acting stoic and being emotionally strong. In the first case, a man may be emotionally repressed, which is why he attracts women who are emotionally unstable and worry him so much.

In the second case, a man will not be emotionally repressed and will have the ability to face his feelings and overcome his emotional wounds. Being so, he will attract more balanced women.

Awareness

If a man can relate to this and is ready to integrate more, he may need to seek outside support. This is something that can be done with the help of a therapist or healer.