Online dating is an important option for meeting other like-minded people looking for a fun or serious relationship. It is estimated that almost 40% of singles use one of the online sites or applications to meet a potential partner. But a lot of time can be wasted aimlessly visiting dating sites without a real plan. Here are some things you can do to be more successful using online dating sites:
Photos are important
The photo used in your profile has a significant impact on your success rate. Try using the photo that makes you look directly into the camera and smile; This is a great way to show that you feel safe, healthy, and friendly. It is essential to be honest and use the updated photo. For those users who have been on dating sites for a while without success, it can be helpful to replace the main portfolio photo from time to time. This can make it look like you are a new user and can help renew interest in your profile. Also, don’t be tempted to crop or retouch the photo. This gives a misleading impression that is not likely to be appreciated at a later date.
Verify the profile
While it may be awkward to ask, it certainly helps to have a friend read and review your profile. This should help not only to check spelling, but also to look for overused sentences or clichés. It is helpful to write the profile that has the potential to grab the reader’s attention within the first 30-40 words. Try to avoid writing your profile long and long, because it is less likely to be read. It can be helpful to use words that convey health and vitality, such as those related to activities (cycling, dancing, tennis, running, yoga, etc.).
Send messages
Being proactive on dating sites and sending the first message to other users is an easy way to make your profile more noticeable. Set aside a few hours a day to write the personalized and unique message for different members. After a short period of writing these introductory messages, there is a much better chance of getting a positive response, compared to those who just wait for someone to contact them. Avoid using a standard cut and paste message and keep it simple while avoiding heavy conversations in initial messages.
Keep options open
You don’t need to limit your interactions to one person at a time. Many people will have ongoing conversations with multiple users at the same time. Also, meeting for the first time shouldn’t become a big deal. A first date can happen after two or three messages have been exchanged. Until a face-to-face meeting takes place, it can be difficult to know if there is something real connecting you to the other party.