Getting your toddler to potty independently is a welcome milestone for any parent. Few of us want to change diapers long after the child’s second birthday. However, children vary greatly in their adoption of the toileting routine, which is influenced by the child’s innate ability, aptitude, and maturity. However, there are several tips and techniques you can use to speed up that blessed day when your toddler says, “Mommy, I did the potty myself.”

  1. Prepare your child: explain that it is time to “pee-pee” and “poo-poo” on the potty. Promote the benefits of being trained, such as no more diaper rash, diaper changing interruptions, being clean and dry. Discuss training as an important stage of growth.
  2. Make it fun: First of all, make this a game. Children will naturally resist anything that is not framed as a fun learning experience. Use games, music, toys, and stories as part of the experience to prevent the child from becoming bored or distracted.
  3. Create a ritual: Try to make the experience repeatable so your child knows what to expect each time and gets used to the routine of sitting and staying on the potty.
  4. Use accessories: The use of books, toys, videos and music help create an atmosphere of fun and enjoyment that is so essential.
  5. Time it right: Try to repeat the process every hour for 2-4 minutes. If you can do this around times when your child usually has a bowel movement or urination, such as right after a meal, even better.
  6. Be Prepared: If you’re traveling or out and about, it’s helpful to carry a collapsible plastic adapter ring that will fit an adult toilet seat. Extra tissues and wipes will come in handy in bathrooms that are short on supplies.
  7. Praise: Socially praise your child for sitting patiently on the potty or for staying dry. If the potty routine is successful, consider some rewards (eg, a special treat, book, or food) that are especially valued.
  8. Show your child how to clean: Show him how to wash and dry his hands with a towel.

Remember that training your child requires patience and perseverance. Staying on task and being consistent sends an important message to your child. Above all, don’t let your child feel forced. It is important that the entire experience is fun and enjoyable for the best results.