Everyone wants to know the best way to handle a breakup, but there is only one important factor that is keeping me from saying what is the best way to handle a breakup. We all have a different situation that needs to be treated differently, but we can divide this into two different types of people. People who want and should get back with their ex and people who want but shouldn’t get back with their ex. Now you ask me how I know if I should be with my ex or not. Well, this is a tricky part and requires a bit of work for you, but it is also very difficult to do on your own. Don’t try to figure this out on your own, it won’t work, most people after a breakup are not prepared to handle a breakup properly and that is why they can never get their ex back. Now more than ever, right after a breakup, you can’t think emotionally, you have to think logically, which I know is almost impossible, so read on to find out what can help you.
Now that’s all good, but you still want to know the best way to handle a breakup. First of all, if you find out that you don’t want your ex back, but it still hurts inside, you have to go to the factor that is hurting you and face it. My best advice is to arrange a meeting with your ex and let him know that you are okay with the breakup, see that things were going nowhere, and wish him a happy life. It sounds simple and you are probably wondering how this would help, but if you can stand there and say this without looking back, you will be surprised how well this can help.
If you have a clear head after all that and you still tell yourself that you want your ex back, some things you don’t want to do is not start apologizing for every little thing you did wrong in your relationship, actually you don’t. you do. Not even apologizing for anything. Don’t start rambling about how badly you want your ex to come back, you just need to be there and let them know that you are still around and that you don’t plan on going anywhere. There are only two ways you are going to mend your broken heart: one is to get back with your ex, the second is to move on and forget about your ex. This seems harsh but it’s true and if you really want your ex back, read on.