Identity theft is not always about our finances; it’s about who we are and it’s buried deep within us. Recovering from the identity theft of a relationship gone wrong is almost as traumatic as a financial identity theft experience. Many times, people want to start a relationship by finding their other half. How can we be only half of someone if we are not whole in our own right?

Couples who have emotional and spiritual differences in their Love Ship connection can sink into the bottomless pit of the ocean when the storm of life produces tsunami waves. The energy of these powerful waves can lead to miscommunication.

When communication becomes limited, then the couple’s thoughts drift apart and create a negative mood level that erodes the Love-Ship they once felt. Some may refer to this first Love-Ship as romance. Some may refer to the sentiment as Lust-Ship.

Regardless of the name of the Ship, the lack of communication creates the fragmentation of the mind within the male and female. This gives the ever-present Ghosts of evil the channel to steer this lovelorn couple’s Ship into the violent storm the Ghosts have ready and waiting. When evil becomes the dominant thread, it takes over the Love-Ship and destroys that beautiful Sacred-Ship into pieces of ocean debris teeming with green slime algae.

The Ghosts have invaded and violated the unity and goodness the couple experienced when they met. God has not been allowed to give the warmth of sunlight and the vibrant colors of the rainbow to weave the thread of love that was once a gift to this couple.

The unbreakable thread of grace that brings God’s mercy and strength could have held the Love Boat together, or better yet, the Love Boat and the Lust Boat. What a beautiful and spiritual ship it would have become if this man and this woman had given up their relationship with God!

The Ship, if allowed to be guided by God, is capable of surviving monstrous storms and gigantic waves of life. A relationship with the thread of the Lord’s sacrifice for sin woven into the intricate details of the Boat of Love and Lust given to two people who dedicate their lives, and their united relationship with Him, creates a harmonic positive energy and a beauty that caresses only the awesomeness of the nature.

Relationships with other people are very similar to the financial relationship we have. We can protect ourselves and become aware of the dangers of The Ghosts who steal, or we can continue to keep our heads in the sand with the Ostrich and do it alone, blinded by the darkness. With the Phantoms of the Dark relations fail.

We have been given the gift of choice. We have the freedom to choose, we do not have the freedom to choose the consequences of our choice. Relationships are priceless or worthless; it’s a choice