If you want to be attractive to women, you have to stand out. One of the main ways to do this is to stand out. In the wild, the Alpha Male is truly the king of his niche. He is the top dog and the boss. 200 years ago, being an alpha male as a human probably required the same requirements. You had to be a big, bad son of a bitch. Keep reading to know more…
These days those requirements have changed. You don’t need to be the biggest and toughest. What you do need is to PERCEIVE YOURSELF as a leader or an expert in some area. This could be due to intelligence, wit and humor, natural leadership ability, or even because you’re actually the biggest, baddest son of a bitch.
The important thing is that you no longer have to be a tough guy to be an Alpha. You need to have something that is not always easy to get. That’s called charisma. Charisma is the factor that generally attracts people to like and appreciate you. It is a large scale attraction and big for being an Alpha Male.
Being charismatic consists of numerous little things, all combined to make a complete package. Intelligence and wit are important, be smart but also funny with ready pranks available. This is the reverse “New Alpha”; someone invades your territory instead of physically attacking him, you knock him down or taunt him to put him in his place, that as Alpha, he has to be under you.
Along with wit and intelligence, you must be a leader. A leader is someone people look up to. You are to some extent, inspiring. Although you should always be in charge, you will help the people around you and show interest in the people who follow you. It’s a two-way street based on loyalty. It’s hard to show leadership with people you don’t know, but when you’re a leader, there are many subtle cues that people will pick up on and understand.
Of course, the physical presence helps to appear like an alpha male. I’m not going to lie and say that being 6’5″ with 30″ biceps isn’t going to make people naturally respect you a bit. Going to. But a 5’7′ guy who weighs 150 pounds can also make a decent physical presence and be an alpha male. Mainly it is about your body language and the way you carry yourself. You need to do it in a safe and self-assured way. Walk with your head back and chest out. One of the most intimidating people I have ever met was a drill instructor from my time in the military. He was a good 4-5 inches shorter than me, but one of the few people who ever scared me just by the mere presence of him. And he had a way of carrying himself that made you think he was 7 feet tall and 400 pounds of muscle. It’s about transportation. Once you understand that, having charisma and being an alpha is easy.